If you are a parent of
a teenage girl, did you know that the girls - starting from ages
12-13 are being told that if they ever happen to become pregnant, all they have to do is to come to the school's
social worker for help.
What kind of help is being offered? Well, girls are being told that if they want it, arrangement for
abortion will be made by the social worker and
nobody will know about it... Nobody means you - the parents of a girl who became pregnant - will not be notified and will not be involved in such fundamental family affair.
Social worker will never inform you that your child is pregnant as the school wants to maintain confidentility - but only between them and your child. If your child doesn't tell you, she simply may one day go to the abortion clinic instead of going to school. She will lose her first child and you will lose your grandchild. And you may not even know about it... Is your girl ready to make such important decision alone - without your input and understanding of your child's needs (especially emotional, but not only)? I don't think so.
Ask you girl, especially when she starts the high school if she was told that she and other girls don't have to tell their parents if they become pregnant. I bet that the majority of parents don't have any idea that our "wonderful" law system alows girls decide alone about abortion despite being so underage...
Obviously our young teenage girls need parents for everything else - to provide them with food, clothes, etc. But when it comes to such important decision in their lives (because they may not have children anymore because of abortion) - they are pressured to be
left alone by the system of unscrupulous school-level administrators and social workers.
I don't think they are old enough to fully understand the
repercussions of going through abortion. Such decision - to kill own baby - is
traumatic even for much mature woman, but here we're talking about very young girls. Will they ever be able to laugh and have any happiness after that? How can be deprived of opportunity to share with their parents their mistakes, or more importantly - pain and confusion? I know enough social workers to doubt that they can be more helpful than parents. And hiding everything from the parents is to me just below any low and law.
I know that in communist countries the government was trying to get full control over the citizens by
distroying the family and family values. Is Canada heading in the same direction?
We don't let our children drive a car when they are under 16 and they can drive alone when they are 19. How can we let a girl to have an abortion and decide about it by herself only - when she is 13 and
doesn't understand what she's going through?
We have to do something about it. Remember, our children will have to one day start taking care about us - when we become old enough not to be able to care for ourselves. If we teach them that it is so easy - like simply talko to a social worker and have an abortion without even telling the parents - what can we expect in the future?
Please talk to your young girl what are they being told about that at her school, although in many cases they were simply advised not to be open with the parents. Let me know in the comments if you are as disappointed by the school system as I am with regards to this important issue.
Helen